The ONLY worthy-path open …

The

Extinction & Non-Bio-Destruction Crisis

is now so far past the ‘point-of-no-return’
that ONLY a
complete
Radical Reformation
onto a completely new
Sustain-Worthy-ing World-Constitution
stands any chance of
“saving”
both
Us
[we Humankind]
and
This Earth’s remaining Lifesupports.
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‘ALONE’
each of us
{don’t wait for anyone else}

“Get ‘stuck-into’
both learning & practicing
{not just simply “having a good read about it all”}
the reliably researched and non-fiction published
new
“Lifeplace Enablements”*
which are not only cumulatively listed here in http://lifefresh.net
but will now be daily published here piece by piece
for your added ‘convenience’.
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I
NEW FOUNDATIONAL BASICS

.A.
INDIVIDUAL & SMALL-GROUPS


.1.
From People Skills by Robert Bolton :-
Catch yourself, and environmental-others, doing these” :-

[Part One
‘Skills for Bridging the Interpersonal Gap’ ]

I wish I had some way
to make a bridge
from man to man … Man is all we’ve got.

Cross Daman
in Robert Wright;s
Outsider.


Chapter Two
(“) The 12 +1 ‘Roadblocks’ to
good communication & honest reasoning. (“)

JUDGING
1
Criticising (negatively);
2
Name-Calling;
3
Diagnosing;
4
Praising/Blaming ‘Evaluatively’.

SENDING ‘SOLUTIONS’
5
Ordering;
6
Threatening;
7
Moralising;
8
Inapprpriate Probing
9
Advising.

AVOIDING OTHERS’ NEEDS & CONCERNS
10
Diverting;
11
Phoney Reasoning;
12
Reassuring
(“You’ll get everything you need”).

ROADBLOCK #13
Saying that someone else is doing all the ‘Roadblocking’.
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.2.
The
” ‘No-Lose’
‘Method III’
of
Needs-&-Hows Recognition
and
Cooperative Problem Solving”.

In 5 Steps
clockwise, equal non-transferrable time,
no interruptions,
no ‘interpretations’,
each round’s final wording
as verbatimly submitted
by each participant.

At each Step
Keep going around
until this is achieved.

Remembering to also include
the Needs-&-Hows
of all those possibly affected
but who are
unable to be present in the meeting.

1
Unanimously
Agree
and unanimously-verbatimly
write up
(on electronic whiteboard)
The World Situation
&
The Problem
that we now Face within that Situation.
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2
Each
“Imagine”
a Solution
that would satisfy every-one’s
Real-Need.
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3
Successively “evaluate” each of those Solutions.
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4
Successively
‘cobble-together’ an ‘eclectic’ solution
or choose just one
that will satisfy every-one’s* real-need.
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5
Successively again
Construct the main
Plan A
and then a
Plan B
[Contingency: in case of ‘failures’ or ‘sabotages’].

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.3.

Start learning all the
“Fallacies ” and “Crooked-Thinking”
‘tricks’ or ‘hidden-pitfalls
that you will be beset-by.

Critical Thinking
(for ‘Dummies’)
by Martin Cohen.

How To ‘Win’ Every ‘Argument’
by Madsen Pirie.
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.4.
“Self-&-Civilisation
(i)
Co-Sustainworthying;
(ii) Individual Human Self-Movability
(Co)-Improving;
(iii)
Wholesomely Holistic
Health, Wellness & Wellbeing
Co-Building-&-Maintaining”.

1
Holistic Living
by Patrick Pietroni.

2
Your Body: biofeedback at its best
[without instruments, machinery and artificiality]
by Beata Jencks.

3
Various DVDs on
Safe Body Stretchings
e.g.
Gentle Stretch Tai Chi”
by Tommy & Melissa Kirchhoff.

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To be continued
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Pausing and going offline sustainworthying
1833>Thurday 20 January 2021 >
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