We each need quite an “array” of foundational & essentially-basic
“key-points”,
“lay-by running-refreshment-&-repairs ‘coves’ “,
and more permanent
“way-stage consolidatory ‘camps'”:
and as we advance
in co-development willingnesses, agreements, abilities, and pro-actions
we shall need both “more sources”- from which to make selections”
and
“a unanimously-agreed one-at-a-time”
– from which to be all progressing
in the same timeframe
with the same guidance-publication, same chapter, same page, same line, and same word or words.
Let us begin assembling such a Progress List
and day-by-day
start familiarising, and doing, at least one-more at a time –
e.g. Today 01 December 2018
familiarise with the
“Twelve-plus-One Intercommunication Roadblocks”
and the
‘Relaxercise-Guidances”
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“Twelve-plus-One Inter-Communication Roadblocks”
People Skills
shows us how we are
(1) Unawaredly preventing good-communication
(2) Missing-out on receiving essentials by not listening well enough
(3) Missing-out on ‘no lose’ resolving problems
and
(jm) ‘real-battlefield conflicts’ ,
by not using a readily available “Peaceful Collaboration Method”.
(1) INSTANCE
We unawarely
JUDGE
by
Criticising
Name-Calling
Diagnosing
Evaluatively ‘Praising” or “Blaming”
———–
SEND-SOLUTIONS by
Ordering
Threatening
Moralising
Inappropriately Probing
Advising
——–
AVOID OTHERS’ NEEDS & CONCERNS by
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ (forgotten for a moment)
Using ‘Phoney’ Logic
Reassuring
————————–
Finally “Roadblock # 13
Saying it’s someone else doing the “roadblocking”
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“Relaxercise-Guidances”
Both
Relaxercise and
The Busy Person’s Guide To Easier Movement
enjoin us to
Go slowly
Move comfortably
Remain within your own safe limits
Rest frequently
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From earlier herein published sources :-
1. “‘Life-Practical’ Guidances” (published below on 02 November 2018_ _ _
Our need for both personally-individual and ‘progressively-collective’
guidances
has become more critical than ever before.
Self-&-Civilisation Co-Sustainworthying Movement-Improvement offers a
“clarificational tip”.
————
Start “browsing”
through a few of the neglected publications
[plenty are listed in previous posts herein]
and copy or pencil-mark any “key”-looking words, phrases, sentences, paragraphs, chapters.
Many serious Guidances are hundreds of pages long –
yet we only really-need a few words from each,
often less than a page-worth’s.
—————–
INSTANTIALLY
Wisdom of the Body Moving
is an exemplary “encyclopaedia” upon the little-known fact that
our own human-movement abilities have been “accrued” and “refined-down”
from each ‘level’ of life-evolution we have been through –
beginning perhaps with the “Single-cell amoeba” level,
timeframingly our bodies and brains
“deeply-remember”
advancing up to and through the “sea-squirt” level,
“upwards” through the “starfish”, the “lanceolet”, through the “frog” level, and on-and-on ‘just-yesterday’ through the “chimpanzee” level
Those body-movements-levels are “incarnated” in both our bodies and our brains.-
Turn now to the mere two double-pages 84-85 and 96-97
to find a Summary of the “whole-thing”
including
at what age the human-foetus,.baby and infant enters into each of these stages of movement-development.
and
photographs of these movement-advances being carried out –
useful not just for “bring baby up right”
but for
“self-therapying” too !
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LIKEWISE
“Twelve-plus-One Inter-Communication Roadblocks”
People Skills
shows us how we are
(1) Unawaredly preventing good-communication
(2) Missing-out on receiving essentials by not listening well enough
(3) Missing-out on ‘no lose’ resolving problems
and
(jm) ‘real-battlefield conflicts’ ,
by not using a readily available “Peaceful Collaboration Method”.
(1) INSTANCE
We unawarely
JUDGE
by
Criticising
Name-Calling
Diagnosing
Evaluatively ‘Praising” or “Blaming”
———–
SEND-SOLUTIONS by
Ordering
Threatening
Moralising
Inappropriately Probing
Advising
——–
AVOID OTHERS’ NEEDS & CONCERNS by
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ (forgotten for a moment)
Using ‘Phoney’ Logic
Reassuring
————————–
Finally “Roadblock # 13
Saying it’s someone else doing the “roadblocking”
================================================
“Relaxercise-Guidances”
Both
Relaxercise and
The Busy Person’s Guide To Easier Movement
enjoin us to
Go slowly
Move comfortably
Remain within your own safe limits
Rest frequently
===============================================
Just about every book contains at least one such relatively short
“overall-overarching-underpinning-‘holistic-living’- key”.