Further self-sustainworthying.enablements are also at hand,
two vital basics coming to us via People Skills (Bolton)
(!) Monitor yourself for the 13 Barriers to human-inter-communication :-
JUDGING
1 Criticising 2 Name-Calling 3 Diagnosing 4 Evaluatively praising or blaming.
SENDING SOLUTIONS
5 Ordering 6 Threatening 7 Moralising 8 Inappropriate probing 9 Advising
AVOIDING OTHERS’ NEEDS and CONCERNS
10 Diverting 11 Pseudo-Reasoning 12 Reassuring .
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The 13th Roadblock is :-
Telling others that they are “roadblocking”.
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(2) The ‘No-Lose’ Merhod lll of Cooperative Problem Solving.
[ see http://www.lifefresh.co.uk or http://www.one-human-living.com
for a 5-Steps detailed guidance that may be copied and printed-out ]
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